What We Can Learn From Taylor Swift’s Engagement
Confession time: I am not a Swiftie. But when the world is buzzing about Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce’s engagement, even I can’t help but take notice. And while the coverage has been filled with flowers, rings, and rumors, what stood out most to me were the intentional choices that reflect values I hold dear when planning weddings and events.
I’m breaking down three lessons we can take away from this massive announcement!
Intimacy Matters
As a wedding planner, I’m the extrovert of all extroverts and love a communal moment. But I also believe in carving out sacred, intimate spaces where couples can focus solely on one another. Taylor and Travis’s choice to share private time together is a beautiful reminder that weddings aren’t only about celebration — they’re also about connection.
In weddings, these moments tend to become the most memorable: a first look before a ceremony, a quiet pause tucked away between events, or a final dance after guests have departed. These pauses are a reminder that while a wedding is a community celebration, it’s first and foremost about two people choosing one another.
2. Flowers Transform Everything
I’ll never stop singing floral praises — NEVER. They’re not just decorations, they’re atmosphere shapers. Flowers soften a space, add color and texture, and create an environment that feels alive and celebratory. (Plus they smell amazing.)
What stood out to me most about the Swift-Kelce engagement photos wasn’t the sheer number of blooms, but the way the design fully immersed them in what felt like a rose garden. That intentional use of florals transformed the moment into something transcendent. Whether you’re working with a single dramatic installation or thoughtful touches throughout, flowers can elevate an experience from lovely to unforgettable.
3. Do It Your Way
One of the most refreshing parts of their engagement was how many details we simply don’t know: was the ring a family heirloom or a custom design? Was the photographer a professional or someone close to them? And the truth is, it doesn’t matter.
Couples today are surrounded by countless opinions and endless inspiration. But the heart of your celebration should be authenticity. The most meaningful weddings are the ones where couples drown out the noise and lean into what feels truly like them. Whether that means mixing traditions, breaking them, or inventing new ones, the best day is always the one that reflects you.
Entering Your Lover Era?
Taylor Swift’s engagement is a reminder that the most powerful celebrations don’t come from following trends but from intentional choices: carving out intimacy, elevating an already beautiful moment with thoughtful design, and staying true to your vision.
At Elle Events, that’s what we do — help couples, organizations, and communities design moments that feel authentic, meaningful, and deeply connected to their story.
It’s a love story, baby just say yes…
